When time becomes the right time

October 8, 2014 | Viewpoints
Phil Wagler |

The New Testament speaks of time in two ways: there is chronos (chronology, the movement of time by clock and calendar), and there is kairos (the opportune time, the right moment).

Life is full of chronos. We wake up at a certain time. We eat at certain times. We go to work, school and appointments according to the calendar. Every day is chronos.

But there are a handful of moments in our lives that are “just the right time.” These become the transforming moments that propel life in a different direction. Rob Thomas’s song, “Little Wonders,” captures what we have all known in some way:

Our lives are made 
In these small hours 
These little wonders, 
These twists and turns of fate 
Time falls away, 
But these small hours, 
These small hours still remain

Those transformative, benchmark kairos hours come in a variety of ways. No two are the same. A tragedy, an opportunity, a disappointment, a serendipitous conversation no one could have orchestrated. We may even make a decision that seemed right at the chronos, but eventually crumbles, leaving us with questions we never would have considered and moving us in a direction that is entirely new and unexpected. That is the in-breaking of kairos when time becomes the right time!

Everyone has these opportune times, but do we maximize them? Do we have people in our lives to help us recognize them?

Jesus made disciples in these moments.

As the moment of the cross approached, Jesus sent out his followers to prepare for another Passover: “Go into the city to a certain man and tell him, ‘The Teacher says: My appointed time is near. I am going to celebrate the Passover with my disciples at your house’ ”  (Matthew 26:18). 

Guess what word “appointed time” is? Yup, kairos. There had been other Passovers, but none like this one. This was the teachable moment, the moment of liminality, and something transforming was afoot. 

Over and over again Jesus did this. Some fishermen paid attention to what he had to say: kairos! Zacchaeus climbed a tree: kairos! A bleeding woman worked up her courage: kairos! A rich young man asked for a deeper meaning of life: kairos!

Sometimes we call these interruptions, what we don’t have time for, or as the worst timing, but what if heaven is actually breaking in at these moments?

Jesus maximized these otherwise mundane moments in a chronological world. And he often created them by sending his disciples into situations they didn’t know what to do with, where their only hope was to commune with God and learn his reign, find their cross to carry, learn to love wholly, trust the new community, and be strengthened for the commission to go.

One of the simple ways of discipleship is to not dismiss or despise the kairos moments. There is the tick-tock tick-tock of every day and then there are moments when the alarm clock blares. Have you, your church or someone you love had one of those lately? What did you do with it? 

Phil Wagler has had a number of kairos moments. They’ve all been mysteriously good timing, though not always a good time. 

--Posted Oct. 8, 2014

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