With the arrival of summer, my wife and I have been enjoying more time outside. Our yard contains many different fruit trees, shrubs and grapevines that provide shade, beauty, and a harvest of berries and fruits. The trees and shrubs are easily managed. However, the grapevines are another story.
A grapevine can be an extremely productive plant. After each fall harvest, I aggressively prune the grapevines all the way back to the main vine, and each year, from the time they begin leafing out in spring until the post-harvest pruning, they don’t seem to quit pushing out new growth. My goal is a blend of shade for the pagoda and plenty of grapes. Pruning is needed to maintain that balance and to keep the vines from overtaking the yard. Without it, they just keep shooting out new branches in every direction and direct less energy to producing the tasty concord grapes that make great juice and jelly.
Having experienced my own backyard grapevines, Jesus’ analogy characterizing himself as the grapevine and God as the gardener in John’s gospel takes on new meaning: “I am the true grapevine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch of mine that doesn’t produce fruit, and he prunes the branches that do bear fruit so they will produce even more” (John 15: 1-2 NLT).
The spiritual pruning Jesus describes is not an occasional event occurring once every few years. It is an ongoing process of plant management that allows the grapevines to focus their energy on the desired result: good fruit.
The lives of many Canadian families are like grapevines on the verge of becoming a bundle of unmanageable foliage.
The Kuhns were a typical Canadian family with three young children involved in various school, sports and fine-arts programs. It seemed like every other day a new note was brought home with another commitment to add to the calendar. Too many evenings were spent figuring out where to squeeze more registration fees out of the budget and more time out of the schedule. If Dad drove one child to soccer practice, Mom could take the littlest one to gymnastics and then swing around to pick up their middle daughter from school before everyone had to be at the evening choir concert. They often thought about saying ‘no,’ but with so much pressure to give their kids every opportunity, guilt always drove another ‘yes.’ They struggled to keep up with a regular offering at church, and, despite wanting to do more, they felt constantly stretched thin.
Perhaps the Kuhns’ story sounds familiar?
In my role as a gift planning consultant with Abundance Canada, I have met many families in this situation, who know they aren’t giving the way they want to, but they need simple gifting solutions to keep giving from getting lost in the busy pace of life. In discussions with donors, I often meet people who take great joy in giving precisely because they have pruned their financial commitments to produce a greater harvest of generosity.
When the Kuhns realized they didn’t need to enrol in every activity to provide their kids with a happy childhood, they began cutting back the social and financial commitments that were sapping energy from the things that mattered most. Freed from the tangle, they began to cultivate first-fruits-giving in response to God’s call on their lives. A new sense of purpose and happiness permeated the family, and they grew closer to God and one another.
What about you? Has the grapevine of your life become overwhelming? Or are you involved in regular pruning to increase the fruitfulness of your generosity?
Harold Penner is a gift planning consultant at Abundance Canada serving generous people in Manitoba and Saskatchewan. Visit www.abundance.ca to learn more, or call 1-800-772-3257 to arrange to meet with a gift planning consultant in your area.